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10 Best Sugar Dating FAQS

March 10, 2019
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Have a question about sugar dating that you were too afraid to ask? Here are the answers you seek.

Beware. The information below is free of political correctness – and straight up honest.

1. Is being a sugar babe prostitution?

No! At no point is there ever an obligation to receive money, have sex or do anything that you don’t want to do when you become a sugar babe.

Members choose each other based on an initial attraction and the understanding of a mutually beneficial arrangement. 

The arrangements are varied. They often involve money and sex, as do all relationships but they don’t have to. Sugar Dating Arrangement.

2. Is sugar dating wrong?

No. Sugar dating is not wrong. It could only be considered morally wrong is if there is no attraction, or if one person in the relationship is forced to do something they don’t want to do. This is the same as any relationship.

If you genuinely like somebody, and if they can help you financially, then where a person takes it is completely their choice.

There are no obligations of any kind to being a sugar babe. The relationship can develop in any way you want it to– and that’s not wrong.

3. Is sex expected?

Honestly, yes. Most men will join with the concept of meeting a sugar babe establishing a connection – which they hope will evolve into a sexual relationship. 

However, generally, sex will be the result of a natural progression between two people that are attracted to each other. Sometimes people go into a relationship not seeking sex, but sex happens anyway.

Remember – the beauty of sugar dating is being with a person that you are attracted to. And at no point is it an obligation to have sex with anyone. It is just dating on your own terms.

If you want to be intimate with someone, it’s your choice. If you don’t want to be intimate, that’s also your choice. The same with every relationship. 

Should I tell friends and family that I’m a sugar babe?

It depends on how you perceive being a sugar babe. While sugar dating is a fun and liberating form of dating, and should be out into the open where it belongs, the reality is that there is an unwarranted stigma attached to it.

There are many people out there, including possibly your friends and family, who think sugar dating is wrong. They may also have an assumption that sugar babes are just escorts, prostitutes or gold diggers. 

If you are confident in yourself and proud of the fact that you decide to take control of your life, then it is the people casting stones that should be ashamed.

Sugar dating is as old a concept as cognitive thought. It has been with every sentient being since life began.

A female lion chooses the strongest partner. All animals do.

5. How do I introduce the subject of an allowance when meeting somebody on a sugar dating platform?

You need to become a member of an online platform that allows its members to talk about money upfront. This is difficult to come by – because most of the sugar dating platforms on the market prohibit you from talking about money over the platform.

Adult Arrangements is the only sugar dating platform that overcomes this problem. Members can list not only what allowance they are looking for on their profile, but also the frequency they would like to meet, and for how long. There is no room for embarrassment or misinterpretation.

If you don’t use Adult Arrangements, then the matter of the allowance you want should be discussed as soon as possible and before any physical meeting. If you don’t do this, you risk your time being unrewarded.

The longer it goes unaddressed, the more difficult it is to broach the subject. As well as this, the strong position you have for asking for what you want is dissolved once you start to see a person. Be decisive and direct at the very beginning.

6. Why can’t I find the right sugar daddy?

There are many more sugar babes than there are sugar daddies, and that is the unfortunate reality. 

To attract the right sugar daddy, you’ll need to stand out from the crowd. It’s no good having a wonderful personality if you have a terrible profile or picture. Your photo doesn’t have to show your face if you are uncomfortable doing so. But you stand a much higher chance of being noticed if you do.

Further, in both your picture and your profile, there is a fine line between being sexy and slutty. Both will get you noticed. The question to ask yourself is “what type of sugar daddy do you want?” You may receive a tidal wave of messages with a slutty picture, but you’re much less likely to get a reply from a quality sugar daddy.

You can learn more about setting up your sugar dating profile here.

7. How do I receive my allowance as a sugar babe?

There are varying ways to receive your allowance. Don’t just let your sugar daddy dictate his terms to you.

Discuss the subject of an allowance early on so as it can settled straight away.

Discussions about money can ruin the atmosphere between sugar daters. The way you receive any gifts is for you both to decide. Cash, direct debit, rent paid – there are endless options.

One important point of note that is often overlooked is that anything you receive is tax-exempt as it is a gift. So, no need to worry if the direct debit option is what you both choose.

8. Do I have to be monogamous?

No. There are no obligations when sugar dating. The only rule is that, like in any relationship, everything should be mutually agreed. So that everyone is happy and comfortable.

If you have one sugar daddy that facilitates all your wants and needs, then monogamy might be the right choice for you. However, avoid agreeing to be monogamous if your sugar daddy does not provide adequately for you. In doing so, you are depriving yourself of the ability to improve your income or situation.

Never agree to anything you cannot commit to or are unhappy with. 

9. What allowance should I ask for?

Generally, a pay per meet arrangement would be $500 per meet. There would also be a minimum monthly allowance of $2,000. 

However, there are many other possible arrangements and there are no specific financial requirements. You could receive $2,000 for a random weekend. It all depends on the frequency of your meets what is expected of you.

However, let’s be honest. A sugar daddy is not going to offer you $2,000 to sit and play monopoly with you (while theoretically possible, it just probably won’t happen). Sugar daddies themselves have their own reasons for doing this kind of dating, and it’s usually not to play board games.

You can also spot scammers at this stage. If somebody is offering you $5,000 per month and an apartment, but you haven’t even met one another, then that’s probably a red flag. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.

10. What’s the best sugar dating site to choose?

While we don’t like to brag, we think you should look no further than Adult Arrangements for your first (or next) sugar dating platform.

Adult Arrangements is run by people who’ve experienced the best and the worst of sugar dating. Sean, the CEO, is a sugar daddy himself and a self-made millionaire. He created Adult Arrangements not for financial gain, but so that other sugar daters did not have to go through the quagmire of disappointments and scammers that he endured when first becoming a sugar daddy.

Adult Arrangements challenges other sugar dating platforms because it represents what sugar dating actually is. Unlike other platforms, it doesn’t prohibit you from speaking about an allowance upfront. It doesn’t penalise you for mentioning “pay per meet”. It doesn’t monitor your private conversations.  And it doesn’t pressure to give out personal information sooner than when you are comfortable.

Sean’s story is worth knowing (read it here). He knew that sugar dating was an amazing way to date. But, over time, he became disillusioned with the platforms he used. He witnessed the constant demise of sugar dating websites, what they offered and how they weren’t giving sugar daters what they actually needed.

The concept of sugar dating is very simple. Other sites try to pretend it’s not about sex or money – the truth is that is very often what it is all about.  However, it is just as much about mutual respect, mutual attraction, and letting adults choose how they want to date.If you’re looking for a fresh sugar dating platform that helps you meet the right sugar daddy or sugar babe, then make an account on Adult Arrangements today.