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What is a sugar dating website?

A sugar dating website is basically a platform that allows men & women to meet who both have the same goals. That is, a mutually beneficial financial agreement with absolutely no strings attached or guilt involved. The Sugar Daddy will sign up to a sugar dating platform to meet sugar babes with the intention of a financial payment for that meet. This can be done on a daily, weekly or monthly basis and is up to the two parties.

The two parties can meet for drinks, a date, a casual fling, whatever they want, but there is most often some type of financial transaction for this and that is up to the parties to agree upon. At Adult Arrangements  you can sort out the details of any meeting simply and in advance. So you can just enjoy your Date.

Why would an attractive, financially secure gentleman need to use a sugar dating website?

Often at this stage in a gentleman’s life you basically have all the things you want. A great house, amazing car, the ability to go on nice holidays. You have acquired a taste for fine dining and know all the best restaurants and cafes in your city. But, you might have no one to share this with or you would like to meet someone new to enjoy these experiences with. You know you’re a good catch and you know you have money to spend. So, a sugar dating website brings this all together nicely where you can meet wonderful women who would just love to meet a guy like you and be spoilt.

What's Different about Adult Arrangements?

Quite honestly a lot! At Adult Arrangements we have built a platform where sugar daters can clearly lay out their expectations. As well as view the expectations of other members. In this way we can all minimise the time wasters and the so called salt daddies that are so prevalent on competitor sites. At Adult Arrangements from a persons profile you can instantly see if they are on the same page as you and have the same expectations. It negates drawn out awkward conversations about an allowance and removes hidden agendas. Essentially you can know in advance that both of you are aware of what is expected of each other. At Adult Arrangements you also do not need to waste time asking each other if they have other apps to further your conversations. For fear of the platform, you are using banning you with its algorithms. We are all Adults and so deserve being treated as such. At Adult Arrangements you can share pictures and messages completely confidentially from within the security of the platform. Adult Arrangements has no access to your picture and message sharing. We also added to the site other features such as Hot Dates. We realised from being sugar daters ourselves that arrangements can vary greatly. So rather than exclude people not wanting to be classic sugar dater’s we thought by offering a way for our members to fully express these different types of arrangements it again stops people wasting each others time. A person looking for a serious long term arrangement can search out someone with the same interest. And likewise a person who might love sugar dating but has limited time to date due to family or work can find a profile that meets that need. It’s a no nonsense approach to sugar dating. We wanted to bring the fun and integrity back into dating. Take away the layer of mud that has settled over the sugar bowl by allowing all of us to be able express ourselves clearly in a  forthright manner right at the start and so get on with having fun and our expectations met. Thats the reason we are all here ist it ? : )

Is sugar dating a good way of starting a committed relationship?

Yes, 100%. The reasons are many but let’s list a few here:

  • You no longer have to prove yourself financially. Your a successful guy and now have the time and money to invest into a relationship.
  • You know exactly what the other person is looking for so there are no game players or time wasters which is so common on other dating websites and apps.
  • Meeting a sugar daddy or sugar baby in this way eliminates all the first date nerves and small chat as the both of you know exactly what your looking for. Again, this simplifies the dating process and fast tracks the both of you into a mutually beneficial arrangement. This can lead to a full blown marriage minded relationship. Thats the beauty of sugar dating it covers everything. If you are both in agreement you can date traditionally or casually. No other way of dating has this flexibility.


What happens if I have no problem meeting gorgeous women?

It’s true many guys have no problems meeting women especially if they are attractive and successful. But you will most probably waste a lot of time and money in the pursuit of these ladies. Also you would very likely feel a little uncomfortable in the type of club or venue that young women frequent. How much easier is it to just set up your profile and let attractive young women approach you. From that you know that they find you attractive and are interested in pursuing a relationship with you. Bit of a no brainer this one. I know as its what i did.

What is the average allowance for a sugar baby relationship?

Most sugar babes are looking for an allowance that will cover all their daily living expenses and a little more on top of that. This will obviously vary between cities and the cost of living in those cities but the average monthly allowance should be anywhere between $1000 – $5000. With $2000 being the average monthly allowance. Again the allowance is for the two people engaging in the relationship to agree upon. You might decide upon a PPM (Pay Per Meet) type of arrangement. The average PPM is $500. Plus there are dinner dates, movies, travel and life’s little luxuries to add to the pot.

Is sugar dating legal?

Yes it is, as the arrangement is made between two consenting adults. Also there are no prerequisites for Sugar Dating. No person is in any way obligated to do anything that they do not want to do. I have written some very good blogs on sugar dating. You can find them at the foot of the home page. I give my opinion on all of these so called taboo subjects. Please have a read of them.

What is a sugar baby?

A sugar baby is a person male or female who is in a specific type of mutually beneficial relationship for the expressed purpose of achieving economic security from a male gentleman who has the capacity to facilitate this on a short, medium or long term basis. The male in the relationship is often termed the sugar daddy. Having said that as mentioned previously there are no fixed rules. This is just  generally accepted definition. A sugar babe might just want to meet a successful person. A lot of sugar babes are genuinely more attracted to older men than young guys.



Do you have to be intimate with the sugar daddy?

That’s totally up to you and should be discussed and worked out before you meet. You can chat online and see what both of you are looking for so that everything is on the table and perfectly clear before you actually meet. In most cases, however intimacy is the norm as it is in any relationship between two consenting adults that are attracted to one another.

Is being a Sugar babe prostitution?

No. Why? At no point is it an obligation to receive money, have sex or do anything when sugar dating.

Members choose each other based on an initial attraction and the understanding of a mutually beneficial arrangement. The arrangements are varied. Not just monetary. But of course were being honest here, nearly all arrangements  in some form do involve money. I’ve mentioned this point on my blogs. And the vast majority of relationships also involve sex.

Nature has always had sugar daddies. It’s quite natural. Check out the Bower Bird. What is wrong with a person looking for the best provider? If a girl ask her boyfriend for half the rent is she being a prostitute? If a guy buys you a drink in a bar and you go back with him that night doe that make you a prostitute? Of course not. The only way I can see the concept of Sugar dating being morally wrong is if there is no attraction. If you genuinely like somebody and they can help you financially then where you take it is your choice. There is never any obligation of any kind to being a sugar Babe. The common all encompassing definition of sugar dating is that of a mutually beneficial relationship. It is completely  your choice on what you decide to make that.

Is sex expected?

Adult Arrangements is all about honesty. The site is based on this concept. No taboos, no hidden little whispers. No pretense.

Most men will join with the concept of meeting a Sugar babe establishing a connection and then for the time you are together acting in all the ways that a couple act.

So yes generally sex is not so much expected but a natural progression between two people that are attracted to each other. As it is where you to meet outside of sugar dating.

I go back though to reiterate that the beauty of sugar dating is being with a person that you are firstly attracted to. A person you would probably date if you hadn’t met through a Sugar site but has the means to financially help you.

If you have no attraction then its not sugar dating. And it then really does become escorting. At no point is it an obligation to have sex with anyone. Sugar dating is the same as organic dating just with all the benefits. So I say again, its “dating on your terms”.  Your terms. 

The golden rule for me is that you never do anything that is outside of your personal moral compass.

Should I tell friends, family I'm a sugar babe ?

Well that question depends on how you perceive being a Sugar Babe. I refer to the two previous questions. There is unwarranted stigma in this form of dating. It is why Adult Arrangements was conceived. To bring a fun and acceptance to this liberated form of dating.

The un liberated, the people that don’t have the strength to dictate life on their terms attach the stigma of gold digger or worse prostitute to sugar babes.

If you are confident in yourself and proud in the fact that you decide to take control of your life then it is the people casting stones that should be ashamed. I made the video on the home page to emphasise that Sugar babes are empowered women.

Sugar dating is as old a concept as cognitive thought. It has been with every sentient being since life began. A female lion chooses the strongest partner. All animals do. What is wrong with you picking a person of intellect and wealth? that has the means to indulge you. Where is the shame in that ? The discomfort lies with the people too afraid to be as you. So going way back to the question. Should you tell family and friends about sugar dating? Well as an  absolute minimum you need to tell somebody for reasons of your own security and safety. You should never meet any person that you are not completely familiar with without letting others know the details of your date.

How do I broach the subject of an allowance?

Thats a simple question but only to members of Adult Arrangements. We are the only sugar dating platform that solves this elephant in the room question for you.

By using our uniquely designed profile page you can list not only what allowance you are looking for but the frequency you would like to meet and for how long. You can also view what allowance a sugar daddy is offering.

No embarrassment, no misinterpretation.

Why can't I find a Sugar Daddy ?

The ratio of Sugar Babes to Sugar Daddies (good Sugar Daddies) is very high.

To attract the Sugar Daddy you want and deserve you need to stand out from the crowd. It’s no good having a wonderful personality if you will be rejected from your profile or picture.

Your picture does not have to show your face if you are uncomfortable doing so, but you stand a much higher chance of being noticed if you do.

In both your picture and your profile there is a fine line between being sexy and slutty. Both will get you noticed.  The question to ask yourself is what type of Sugar Daddy do you want?

I go into setting up your profile in some detail on our home page at Adult Arrangement’s, check it out.

How do I receive my allowance ?

As there are different ways to structure an arrangement. So there are different ways to receive an allowance.

Do not just let your sugar Daddy dictate this very important aspect of why you became a Sugar Babe.

Remember it’s about mutually beneficial relationships. Sugar dating is ever only successful when both parties attain what they want and how they want. Discuss the subject early on so as it can be put to bed so to speak. Discussions about money can ruin the atmosphere between sugar daters. The way you receive any gifts is for you both to decide. Cash, direct debit, rent paid, there are endless options. Personally I would say receive your allowance in cash. People can make excuses for bank deposits not showing. With cash you can then pay your rent, tuition fees or what ever expenses you might have your self. Also have your allowance paid in advance or at the start of a date, cleared funds. Far too many sugar babes are exploited at this point. One important point of note that is often overlooked is that anything you receive is tax exempt as it is a gift. So no need to worry if the direct debit option is what you both choose.

Must I be Monogamous ?

I could start with the same opening line to most questions in regards to sugar dating. There are no set rules. Everything is to be mutually agreed. Never agree to anything you cannot commit to or are unhappy with. At Adult Arrangements both people can select a box stating the type of relationship they are looking for. Look to match with profiles that match you’re selection. You both need to agree upon important aspects of the relationship such as this.

Back to the anthem: “Mutually beneficial relationship”. but not just beneficial in wants and desires. For any relationship to work it must also be morally beneficial. in that i mean that both people must feel completely comfortable in every part of the relationship.

It’ s not personally beneficial relationship. Simple rules make this work. That is, that everyone is happy and comfortable. It cannot work any other way and be called Sugar dating – remember that.

What allowance shall I ask for?

Again no set rules so no set amount. If you’re looking for a benchmark here. Generally pay per meet would be $500. Average monthly allowance $2000. You could receive $2000 for a random type weekend.

It all depends on the frequency of your meets, at the expectations. As I mentioned expectations. And let’s not be delusional as this blog is pointless with out honesty.

A sugar Daddy is not going to offer $2000 to sit and play monopoly with you. Scammers generally have a give. They over cook the cake so to speak. If it sounds too good to be true it generally is.

How do I ensure my safety

This is fundamentally the most important question. Don’t let the honey trap dull your intellect and your senses. Follow simple common sense rules before even considering personally meeting anyone. Get to know them and verify them though dialogue and telephone conversations. Ask to see pictures that you can tell are recent and of the person in question by requesting a certain pose. Your first face to face should not be your date. A meet and greet in a public place is essential. If you’re happy then that can expand to a date.

If it is the first time you are to receive an allowance have it transferred into your bank account and have it clear.

If your date becomes demanding or acts in any way that you deem to be inappropriate walk away and report them to us at Adult Arrangements

Simple common sense rules to ensure your sugar dating experience lives up to what it should.

I hope me answering the questions above proved useful to you. For any advice about Sugar Dating feel free to contact either myself or Sarah and we will endeavor to answer your questions.

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What’s the best Sugar Dating site to choose?

If you want volume well seeking Arrangements has it as its long standing.

But with that comes complacency and a disregard for its members and standing up for them as a voice.

For a site that has been thought of for you as it was designed by a person like you
Adult Arrangements

The CEO is a self-made millionaire that started the site not for financial gain but so that other sugar daters did not have to go through the quagmire of disappointments and scammers that he endured when first becoming a Sugar Daddy. His story is worth reading.

The site was created as he knew Sugar Dating was an amazing platform but from when he first joined as a sugar daddy he witnessed the constant demise of Sugar dating platforms, what they offered and their affinity to self loathing.

“Lets not be true to what we are in case we get shut down”

The concept of Sugar dating is simple.

Other sites try to pretend its not about sex or money. It is but in a much kinder term than how that read. It’s about sex money sure but also mutual respect, mutual attraction.  Mutually beneficial, and the only form of dating that you can tailor make to suit both people that is devoid of jealousy and the impairments that come with organic dating