If you’re wondering what’s it really like to be a sugar babe, then you’ll need to hear from one herself.
In this article, Jane (not her real name) was asked to describe why she loved being a sugar babe. She gave us four reasons.
Hi! My name’s Jane, and I was asked ‘what do I like being about a sugar babe’? I’ve pretty much dulled it down to four simple reasons.
Warning: these are my honest answers. So read on if you dare, and judge if you must!
1. I like being in control
I like the fact that I am in complete control in my sugar dating relationships. I get to choose who I wish to date, how I want to date and what allowance I want to help with my studies.
I also get to choose a man or men I am attracted to and a person in a position to help me financially. Why work part-time as I once did behind a bar, when I can earn much more money being on the other side of the bar having drinks served to me?
2. It’s helping me get through university
Before becoming a sugar babe, I was struggling with bills and tuition fees, and my life was all work and no play.
I’m studying law at uni right now. Any free time I have is spent studying. Before sugar dating, that free time was taken up working to cover my expenses.
Having to work like this came to a head when I had exams due. I found it nearly impossible to both work and devote the time required to my revision.
But now, after choosing to be a sugar babe, I’m finding the right balance – I can go on sugar dates, spend time with friends and family, and have enough time to study and finish my degree.
3. I meet the people I want to meet
Some might think its shallow to meet someone by being a sugar babe. I disagree. It’s actually a very evolved form of dating – as it is 100% honest and upfront.
By contrast, I have had relationships with people outside of sugar dating and found the complete opposite to be true – where there is jealousy and people trying to emotionally manipulate you.
The sugar daddies I have met have all been guys I would have dated if we hadn’t met through a sugar dating platform. There has always been a genuine attraction on both sides. Sugar dating has just enabled me to find the man I want more easily.
4. I get to be myself
Being a sugar babe helps me be my own person. I choose my allowance. I choose my availability. Every date I go fits with my lifestyle.
Should that lifestyle change, I simply adjust my profile and pick someone that’s in tune with that. With this freedom, I now find that I have the benefit of much more time for my studies and life in general.
Some final words: with a sugar daddy, your time becomes yours.
By having a sugar daddy, I no longer need to work part-time to fund my degree.
I have none of the restraints or pressures associated with having a traditional boyfriend. When I am with my sugar daddy, our time together becomes quality time.
Although it’s not personally what I feel comfortable doing, If I came across an unexpected financial situation, I am free to date as many sugar daddies as I choose. It’s dating on my terms to fit in with my lifestyle and needs.
It’s this complete freedom of choice.
It might not work for everyone. But it certainly works for me.